I didn't fire her immediately, but likely will very very soon.
She would make a great first sponsee for some woman with a year or two. They might enjoy browbeating her into doing some work. It is my philosophy that if you are done drinking and desperate to be sober (as you should be when you get to AA), you are happy to do a little bit of writing or meeting or driving or cleaning or counting or really just about anything (reasonable) that you are asked to do. I don't think it is my job to make her willing. I have sponsored her for 2 months and she has not done one thing I have asked. I think that it is time for her to find someone else to work with because I have other things to do - like work with people who are willing.
On that note, I am heading out of here this morning to meet with a sponsee. She gets up and gets to a meeting by 6:30 and stays after to talk with her sponsor. I don't have to browbeat her into doing this, in fact, she is grateful for the opportunity. As am I.
Happy to be hopping into the bathtub this morning and starting a new day - without a headache or much of a cold. I may be able to start running again soon. That would be happy indeed!